Tuesday, April 3, 2012

changes...



Things in my life are changing. Levi and I have made the decision to split. It was not an easy choice to make, however I believe that we both feel positive about the decision and we are looking forward to the next stage of our lives... I am feeling so relieved that we are both on the same page with our feelings, and I genuinely feel that we will remain close and we will continue to share the life of our precious baby girl. It is still a very tricky and emotional time, so I am going to ask for a little patience and understanding when it comes to sporadic blog posts and naughty shorts updates. 

Thanks so much for all of your support. It truly means the world to me. 

Bec x

23 comments:

  1. Oh Bec! Hope your ok - Such a positive post for what must be a terrible situation. Look after yourself - you'll be fab where ever you find yourself in the world
    Mxo

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  2. Dear Bec,

    Take care and take your time to do this in a right way.
    Be proud to take this difficult step, it's not easy for the both of you,
    especially because of your sweet little one...

    You will make it.
    xx Maartje

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  3. Big hugs Bec, Take the time to do what you need to do, to make your universe balanced again. Us Naughty Shorts fans...know that all things good are worth the wait. xxx

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  4. Wow, that is a bit of a big deal isn't it. So not an easy decision for you both to reach but i am so pleased that you are both on the same page. Bet that makes a tough time a bit easier. thinking of you. melx

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  5. Measure twice, cut once. Being apart from your child's other parent is ten times harder than staying together. Be very careful that you don't make a decision that your child will berate you with for their entire adult life. Been there.

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  6. As a new follower of your amazing blog, I am so impressed by your openess in such a raw situation. Having been in that position myself, like many of us, I have to say it won't be easy, I was told the same and didn't appreciate the honesty of it until later on. It isn't easy living a lie in an unhappy relationship either tho is it. So congrats on your bravery and sharing it with your many readers. What a beautiful creation your moment in time has brought into the world, a child! Be kind to yourself x

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  7. look after yourself and your small person xx this is such a big thing to share and experience for both of you

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  8. sending you and your little family much love Bec x

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  9. Big hugs. What a sad and difficult time. I hope you will all be ok. Sarah xxx

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  10. In NZ we say "kia kaha" - be strong! Hugs to you x

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  11. So hard to know what to say, you seem to have such an amazing attitude to life that I know you will be ok....take care and I'll be thinking of you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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  12. Bec, check your etsy messages, Lou x

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  13. Bec that's a really positive approach to a life changing situation. There will be light at the end of this I'm sure. Thinking of you all.

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  14. sending you love and strength to get through these days as gently as possible. xoxo

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  15. Bless you for having the strength and maturity to make that move. Sounds like it's been gracious and carefully considered. Good luck.

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  16. It sounds like you guys are both pretty mature individuals indeed. Im am sure you will make things work well apart. Your positive attitude is so admirable :)

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  17. Lot of big changes in your life lately.
    hard decision for all of you,but you will be ok.
    Look after your little one and look after you too.
    Thinking of you all at this difficult time.
    Best wishes Lyn

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  18. A relationship break up is always harder than the death of a loved one. There are so many pieces to pick up and toes to avoid. I hope life sends to the strength and maturity (you seem to have both) in bundles so that you both make this change as easy for your bundle of joy

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  19. Crazy... you posted this the same day my partner and I split. Of course it's not quite the same as we don't have a small one together but I can understand a little how hard things will be for you right now. It comes in waves for me. Friends and family are crucial. Hugs to you. X

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  20. Oh Bec....I wish I could give you a hug Love....I know you are no doubt I taking this in your stride & forging ahead with your plans but if you feel like you're coming 'unstuck' at all & need....anything....I'm just an email away....!!

    This has INDEED been a BIG year for you....!!!!!

    Tamarah xx

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